Decision making

 What is Maturity?

I got the definition from other source and it defines as the state of having reached a stage of full or advanced development.Yes it is exactly true in terms of banking as well as in Life.Mature people always live by values.

"Mohabbat ka 35 tukda" is a thumbnail in  YT is the reason to choose this  topic today.I don't want to go in detailed  description of the incident because it hurts my sensitive soul a lot.I want to discuss my view on maturity levels especially on youth.

Young people are recognized as adults at age 18 but as per science brain development suggests that most people don't reach full maturity until the age 25.

Nowadays,to my surprise the people even at the age of 25 are not able to take right decisions and they are not willing to think in a broader way but we can also find matured people in very less count.The humanity is always lives in "We " but not in "I".Thinking about only yourself is a disease and which leads to drastic disadvantages in lives.

Why can't we become more mature?

Yes we can become.

Listen More,take ownership on yourself ,Build confidence, Practice self control all these measures  gives you a good results in changing of thoughts towards negative vibes.

Nowadays,foolishly taking decisions on their own without thinking about its extreme severe effects in future.Sometimes we may loose our lives due to this action when you take things for your granted.

when you are able to think in a right way you would consider as a matured person and there is no chance to looking back in decisions what you made and You would become successful in life.If  you are not a good decision maker you must depend on your parents because they knew everything and they are well experienced in living the life in this world.

Sometimes we scold our parents that they don't know anything but in reality we are the backward people and lives in one trance far away from their thoughts.

Why people are unable to think out of the box?

As compared to olden days now we are facilitated with all required things,technically well developed in respective areas and the parents mind set changed towards women empowerment.They letting out the girls for their higher studies despite all this still we are falling in quicksand.The emotion at the situation is not a final solution to your problem.There is more world beyond that,If a person said no in any relation means  you should end it at that point and a person wouldn't say no if its real bond so don't evolve deeply and prolong the situations. In this high society there are lot of opportunities waiting for us.Just Watch and explore the things you will have great future ahead when you are able to think out of the box.

As a Indian citizen we do have customs,traditions and we are respected by our own culture by other countries but we became free-spirited and moving towards adopting foreign culture.The girl come out from home and staying alone from their parents is a great thing but do not take this situation for granted ,there must be consequences results that you should face its effects and which badly hurts you and sometimes which leads to loose your life.

Practice self control which takes you high and gives you high.Then you will realize, that all the things seems to be very little when you have 'Great spirit' and 'Weighty soul'.